Whenever does attraction to full figured individuals become fetishizing?
I’d been on Bumble at under a time as he messaged me personally.
We stated hello. He said I like my ladies fat. Big woman results in a mouth that is big. Often bigger girls are better at pleasing their men however. A good h that is nice j — is better when there’s a chubby hand working on the project lol.
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Like most girl, I’d come you may anticipate photos that are explicit unwelcome improvements and, once I dared decline, epithets hurled too easily. But we additionally encountered messages such as these, tinged with entitlement to my fat human body — a human anatomy they expected had been theirs for the taking due to the dimensions of it. To them, We wasn’t a brand new land to overcome, held no vow associated with the excitement of this search presented by thinner women. No, I would personally get willingly, grateful due to their conquest.
But significantly more than that, this message mirrored so numerous experiences I’d had prior to. It echoed the hogging, the pig roasts, the fat jokes on television. The issues from friends and family, hanging the vow of the loving, healthier relationship at an inferior fat. Continue reading